"The mark of an immature man is that he would die knobly for a cause. The mark of a mature man is that he would live humbly for one" - Catcher in the Rye -WARNING WRITER SPELLING CHALLENGED! But Sometimes you have to say "what the fuck!"

Sunday, January 16, 2005

Vader L-L-L-OVES FUCKING... Sex and Love

Love in Sex
What is the difference between sex and love? I think there are many ways to have sex. Quick, back of the car fucking; that builds up fast in explosive and passionate nothingness. Then there is long, all night sessions. Where two bodies entwine in the most intimate and loving expression. There can be mercy fucks, and drunk fucks, and fuck friends, and that special fucking that takes place that and at that moment feels like love. Sex, the most intimate form of expression, two naked bodies, intertwined and communicating love in the most animal-like expression. Can one express love through sex? Even between drunk strangers?

From Urban Dictionary (lol at the definitions)
1.) An inexplainable yet incredibly strong feeling for someone...Most people use the word "love" to get into someone else's pants. Love is overused in today's world, people say they love someone because of the way they look or their body. That isn't love. Love is when you can't do anything without thinking about that person, you always want to be with them. It's not that you want to have sex with them, you just want to spend time with them and you just want to hold them and never let go. Love can be fooling, you can think you're in love and it can lead to the most horrible feeling in the world. Also you can wait so long for someone, loving them, and waiting for them to love you back, but they don't return it for a long time and you spend years thinking and thinking and it tears you up inside but when that person realizes that they love you back it's miraculous. Love is a very strong word, don't overuse it.

A painful activity in which a man, using the stiffest and pointiest part of his pelvic region, repeatedly stabs a female in her crotch until he feels satisfied. Can also take place between two men, in which one male stabs the other in the bum. Lesbian "sex" may be fun and all, but it aint real sex unless there is some sort of stabbling going on, perhaps with a cleverly shaped hand or steel dildo.
Time to have sex, Sally Struthers!

(n) Fun involving the exchange of bodily fluids.

Love Making My Ass!
Why do some call sex-making love, if there is no form of love involved? What is love? Intimacy, doing anything in that moment for someone, screaming out a name at the heightened point of climax? That wild, ecstatic feeling where you cant get enough of another’s body, another’s soul, and every touch, kiss, lick, insertion feels incredibly like magic. Can that be love?

Sex and Pain
What about pain? That heartbreak in wondering if your love from sex meant nothing but a moment in time? The sore thighs, rug burned knees and back, bruised neck and pain between your legs. Your body can hold the magic of that night for painful days. Is it worth it? Does it mean anything?

What about sex between a couple who has lost that magic. Who goes through the motions, sickened by each others bodies. They claim to have love, but do they have as much love as the couple who fucked the night away with mad passion and lust? What the fuck is love anyway?

Dont Ask Me.... I just write this shit
Im not saying I know anything about this either. Yet, I’m not saying I don’t *wink*. I just wonder if a couple can find love in a night of passion. Does love have to mean monogamy and forever, or can it last a night?

My Blogger friend
On another note, I met my first blogger. Bianca, is an army wife who lives in Colorado Springs. I love this grrrl to pieces, and I am so happy that I met her. She is one cool ass bitch, and I can tell we are going to be great friends.

Sorry to Tease
Im still not back to blogging AC/DC style yet, I’m here, but quite distracted with moving and settling in and the hours and hours of endless job hunting. I promise to be visiting you all very soon. I do love you all, even if we haven’t had sweaty and passionate sex.

Happy Sunday,


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